Domestic violence, sexual violence and stalking happen everywhere, including the Upper Valley. WISE advocates are here to listen and support you. We know that you can make your own decisions when you have information and support. You are the expert in your life.

WISE Support

  • 24-Hour Crisis Line, 866-348-WISE
  • Medical Advocacy
  • Forensic Interview Support
  • Court & Legal Advocacy
  • Social Service Advocacy
  • Emergency Shelter
  • Transitional Housing
  • Information & Referral
  • Support Groups, Workshops, Yoga
  • Financial Advocacy
  • Somatic Experiencing & Trauma Informed Support
  • Educational groups for children who witness
  • Domestic Violence Specialist Program
  • Safety Planning

Domestic Violence

  • What is Domestic Violence?

    Domestic violence is a pattern of coercive and manipulative behaviors committed against a current or former intimate partner to gain power and control. Intimate partner violence, relationships violence and dating violence are all terms used to refer to a relationship that is abusive. Anyone can be a victim or perpetrator, they come from all demographics.

  • You are not alone

    On average, 20 people per minute are victims of physical violence by an intimate partner in the United States. 1

    According to the CDC, 1 in 4 women will experience severe physical violence from an intimate partner in their lifetime.

    In Vermont over the last 13 years, 52% of all homicides were domestic violence related (2007 Vermont Fatality Review).

    In New Hampshire, more than 50% of women will experience a sexual and/or physical assault in their lifetime (2007 New Hampshire Violence Against Women Report).

    WISE has 30+ trained advocates to support you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
    Call
    866-348-WISE for immediate support.

  • Does your partner...

    disrespect or embarrass you in public?

    disrespect you in private, so other people only see his/her good side?

    tell you that you are crazy?

    get mad at you for spending time with friends or family or anytime separate?

    undermine your parenting or manipulate your relationship with your children?

    monitor your phone, emails, or Facebook?

    prevent you from working, sleeping, studying or taking care of yourself?

    threaten to keep the children away from you?

    control the finances, steal your money or prevent you from working?

    insist that “this is just what relationships are like” or that your friends and family are trying to ruin your relationship?

    pressure you to drink, do drugs or other illegal behaviors?

    enforce gender roles that support male dominance and female obedience?

    threaten to share your private information or spread rumors about you?

    blame you for his/her behaviors or for the problems in the relationship?

    threaten to hurt one or both of you?

     

    An abusive relationship often appears to be wonderful at the beginning. An abusive partner may be charming, fun and loving. Gradually and quietly, elements of abusive behavior creep into the relationship.

  • Abuse is not because of...

    poor anger management skills—domestic violence is about a desire to have power and control over the partner, not because the abuser gets angry or “out of hand.”

    substance use or abuse—drugs and alcohol often act as an excuse for an abuser to act   more extreme but the manipulative and coercive behaviors are present without substances.

    childhood experiences of abuse—violence is a learned behavior but it is not an excuse for perpetration.

    low self-esteem—the abuser feels entitled to power and control over the partner and is confident that the behavior is acceptable.

    lack of trust—is not an excuse to control what the partner does, to whom (s)he talks to or with whom (s)he spends time.

    Abuse is never your fault.

  • Another layer: identity and same sex relationships

    Abusers who are LGBTQIA are exercising the same behaviors of power and control, entitlement and ownership over their partners, just as heterosexual or cis abusers. Additional layers of shame, depression, fear, powerlessness and silence are created when identities are culturally marginalized. It may not feel safe looking for support from families, friends or communities who had previously excluded you because of your LGBTQIA identity. If the abuser is also part of the LGBTQIA community it may feel extra hard to find support because of pressure from the group, or fear of additional criticism from the outside world.

    Abuse is never your fault.

     

  • LGBTQIA: you are not alone

    44% of lesbian women and 61% of bisexual women experience rape, physical violence and/or stalking by an intimate partner. 3

    26% of gay men and 37% of bisexual men experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner at some point in their lifetime.

    25% - 33% of LGBT relationships are abusive. This is the same percentage as straight relationships. 4

    36.3% of lesbians, 55.1% bisexual women have been slapped, pushed, or shoved by an intimate partner at some point in their lifetime. 5

  • What is safety planning?

    There are ways to increase your safety while you are in an abusive relationship and when you are leaving one. We believe that you are the expert in your situation. Only you know how to stay safe from your abuser.

  • Increasing safety in an abusive relationship

    Identify the people people in your life that you can tell about the abuse: friends, family members, co-workers, doctors, police officers, advocates.

    Establish a safe word that will tell your supporters that you need them to take action without alerting the abuser that help is on the way.

    Think about how you want your supporters to help you: listen, keep important documents safe or hold onto money, call the police.

    Keep records and evidence of the abuse: take pictures of injuries or property damages, keep a log of events, call the police.

    Keep your prescriptions safe from your abuser. If you are concerned about your abuser damaging or withholding birth control, talk with your medical provider about the best method for you.

    Find a hidden place for money and copies of important documents.

    Create new email/Facebook accounts and phone number.

    Avoid dangerous clothing or accessories (i.e., scarfs or long necklaces that can strangle).

    Create several believable reasons and alibis for you to avoid time with your abuser.

    Identify safe places where you can go for short or long periods of time. Some ideas: a friend’s or family member’s home, work, park, public business, shopping center, bookstore, the police station, library.

    Seek medical treatment for injuries caused by the abuse and have injuries documented by a medical professional.

    Read about the considerations for safety around technology.

  • Preparing to end an abusive relationship

    Leaving is a dangerous time for victims of domestic violence. Take all threats seriously.

    Anticipate how your abuser may react to your ending the relationship.

    If you have children, will he call the police and accuse you of kidnapping?

    Women who are victims of domestic violence have a higher rate of being arrested—might he accuse you of a crime?

    Do you have shared bank accounts or credit cards that he may empty or max out?

    Secure your money. If you have children, it is recommended that you take 75% of shared income. If you do not have children, take 50%. You do not have to spend the money, but it is very common for abusers to empty accounts or max out credit cards after their victim leaves. Learn more about financial safety.

    Bring important items and documents such as: identification, birth certificates (yours and children’s), clothing, lease, house deed, insurance papers, house and car keys, medications, jewelry/valuable objects, address book/important contacts, school records, immunization records, last year’s tax return, comfort items.

    Consider making arrangements with a friend or animal shelter if you have pets and do not want to leave them with the abuser.

    Call 866-348-WISE. You can talk with an advocate abut to  a safe strategy for leaving.

  • Safety planning with children

    Establish a “safe word” with your kids that will signal when they should leave or call for help.

    Talk with your children about how they can stay safe and where they can go when they feel afraid.

    Help your kids think of safe adults that they can call or go to when they have questions or are scared.

    Encourage your kids to identify emotions and build skills to honor their needs in safe ways.

    Talk with your children’s school or care providers and create a safety plan.

    Tell your children that violence and abuse are never OK. It is not their fault OR yours.

  • After leaving an abusive relationship

    Change your cell phone number or block your abuser’s number.

    Unfriend the abuser on Facebook and other social media platforms, make sure your privacy settings are strong.

    Inform family members, housemates and/or co-workers to screen your calls and make sure your abuser cannot contact you or visit you at work.

    Avoid certain areas that your abuser may look for you (i.e., banks, stores, restaurants, gyms).

    Record any irregular occurrences, stalking behaviors, or signs of the abuser. Be aware that abusers can easily access technological devices to stalk their victims.

    Change or vary your routines so that your abuser cannot track or follow you.

    Plan in advance what you will do if you see your abuser in public or if (s)he tries to contact you.

    Identify people that you can reach out to when you need support.

    Apply for a Domestic Violence Petition from Lebanon Family Court or Relief from Abuse Order from Windsor Family Court. WISE can help you with this. You can read about the relief that is available in specific states here.

     

  • Leaving an abusive relationship with children

    Tell your children’s school/care givers the specific people who are and are not allowed to pick them up.

    Talk to your children about what they should do if they feel scared with a parent. Allow your kids to talk about the relationship without worrying about your feelings.

    Plan with your children about what they should do if they see a parent without visitation rights or if the parent tries to contact them.

    Remind your children that even though the abusive behavior is never ok, it is ok for the children to still love the abusive parent or want a relationship with him or her. Help your children connect with adults that they can talk to when they are confused.

  • How can I support someone in an abusive relationship?

    Supporting a friend or loved one who is in an abusive relationship can feel frustrating, overwhelming and scary. Here are some helpful tips for supporting victims, safely and effectively:

    Stay in touch

    Abusers frequently isolate their victims from friends and family.
    Do not take it personally if your friend is suddenly busy or unable to see you. Do your best to stay in your friend’s life, check in on your friend and let him or her know that you are available.

    Listen and believe

    Abusers intentionally make their victims feel confused, embarrassed and/or guilty. Listen to your friend openly and without judgment.

    Focus on the abuse

    Point out the behaviors that are abusive rather than criticize the abuser. Talking about what an awful person the abuser is naturally makes the victim feel defensive.

    Use the Empowerment Model

    The goal of an abuser is to have power and control over the victim.
    Remind your friend that (s)he has the power to make his or her own decisions.

    Safety plan

    The victim knows best how to keep himself or herself and the children safe.
    Ask how you can be a helpful piece of their safety plan.

    Call our crisis line, 866-348-WISE to talk with a WISE advocate about how to support someone in your life.

Sexual Violence

 

Stalking

  • What is stalking?

    Stalking is a pattern of behavior directed at a specific person that would put a reasonable person in fear. The motivation of a stalker is to have power and control over the victim. Stalking behaviors often are not criminal individually, but do become criminal when the context is examined.

    New Hampshire Stalking Law

    Vermont Stalking Law

    Stalking can involve threats or sexual innuendo and the stalker generally tries to intimidate or induce fear in the person they are stalking.

  • You are not alone

    1 in 4 women and 1 in 13 men have experienced stalking at least once in their lifetime. 16

    81% of victims stalked by their intimate partners report previous physical assaults by the same offender (NVAW Survey). 66% of female victims and 41% of male victims are stalked by current or former intimate partners. 17

    ● Abusers may stalk their victims as a way to maintain control during the relationship.

    ● Abusers may stalk their victims as a way to regain their control if the victim leaves the relationship.

    Stalking victims who are raped most often identify the stalker as a former intimate partner, friend, roommate or neighbor (U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics 2009).

    WISE has 30+ trained advocates to support you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
    Call our crisis line (866) 348-WISE
    for immediate support.

  • What are some characteristics of stalking?

    Victims may only realize they are being stalked once they identify a pattern of strange or suspicious incidents.

    receiving phone calls and text messages

    getting incessant messages left on social networking sites

    finding unwanted letters or gifts

    feeling of being followed, stared at or watched

    seeing the stalker at random or unusual places

    having things moved or missing from your home

    creating print flyers about you

    posting information about you online

    trying to contact or gain information about you through other people

    showing up at your home, work, etc. uninvited

    making direct or indirect threats to harm you or people in your life

    damaging your property

    The person being stalked often develops a sense of loss of control over his or her life and is forced to change routines.

  • Technology and stalking

    Perpetrators may use technology as a tool for stalking.  Technology is constantly changing and advancing. It’s important that you regularly check privacy and security settings for your personal profiles.

    A stalker may:

    check your internet history if they have access to your computer

    install spyware software that sends copies of your keystrokes including: passwords, websites visited, emails sent

    follow you via social media “check-ins” or mutual “friends”

    post private information, pictures or other content about you, build websites or blogs

    write attacks through email or social media

    send incessant emails or messages

    call constantly and leave voicemails and text messages

    use call spoofing software that allows him or her to change the number that appears on your caller ID or change the sound of his or her voice

    track you using GPS within your cell phone if the stalker has access to your cell phone account

    place GPS underneath your car, in your bag, etc.

    place very small cameras in your room, or car.

  • How can I increase my safety?

    Stalking can be very dangerous and should be taken seriously. 76% of intimate partner femicide victims had been stalked by their intimate partner. 18

    Trust your instincts! You are not crazy and your fear is real.

    Take all threats seriously.

    Change routes. Leave for your class or work at different times, vary your schedule.

    Decide in advance what to do if you see the stalker in public, at home, at work, at school, etc.

    Ask for support from trusted friends, family, teachers, coaches, employer or co-workers.

    Change passwords frequently: email, PIN, online banking, phone screen lock, Facebook, etc.

    Keep privacy and security settings on personal online profiles up to date.

    Do not communicate with the stalker.

    Consider getting a second phone and/or new email address to keep in touch with friends and family. You will have the security of a private phone and email and you can keep a record of incriminating evidence of calls and messages on the old phone and email account.

    Keep evidence of stalking in order to demonstrate a pattern and to provide context for the scary behaviors.

    ● Write down time, date, place of any stalking occurrence

    ● Keep emails, messages, notes

    ● Photograph any damages

    Talk and safety plan with local police.

    Call our crisis line (866) 348-WISE for immediate support.

  • Legal protection

    In New Hampshire:

    You may apply for a Domestic Violence Petition if you are being stalked by a current or former intimate partner or household member. If your stalker does not meet the relationship criteria for a DV Petition, you may apply for a Stalking Petition. Both orders are obtained at Lebanon Family Court in Centerra Parkway.

    To learn more about police support in New Hampshire, read the NH Stalking Protocol for Law Enforcement.

    In Vermont:

    You may apply for a Relief from Abuse Order if you are being stalked by a current or former intimate partner or household member. If your stalker does not meet the relationship criteria for an RFA, you may apply for an Order Against Stalking or Sexual Assault. Both orders are obtained at Windsor Family Court.

  • How can I support a friend?

    Listen and believe

    Many behaviors of stalkers are not criminal and may not look scary or harmful out of context. A victim may find talking about the experience difficult. (S)he may fear that (s)he will not be believed or will be viewed as crazy. Validate the individual’s feelings and experiences.

    Check in often

    Stay in contact. Establish a frequency of time that the two of you will connect.

    Document evidence

    Document any evidence of stalking that you witness. Make a report to the police if the individual asks for your help.

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Empowerment Model

The individual is not the cause of his or her problem. With information and support, the individual can make the best decisions for generating a solution.

The process of empowerment enables one to gain power, authority and influence over oneself, within institutions or society. Empowerment can be the totality of the following or similar capabilities:

● Having decision-making power

● Having access to information and resources to make decisions aligned with personal goals and outcomes

● Having a range of options to make choices (not just yes/no, either/or)

● Having the ability to exercise assertiveness in collective decision making

● Trusting oneユs ability to affect change for oneself and in the world

● Having the ability to build skills for improving one's personal or group power

● Being active in a growth process and self-evolution that is never ending and self-initiated

● Increasing one's positive sense of self and overcoming stigma

● Increasing one's ability to identify things that are comfortable and those which violate a sense of self or boundaries

Empowerment is a multi-dimensional, social process of increasing the capacity of individuals or groups to make choices and to transform those choices into desired actions and outcomes. The process creates power to use those choices in oneユs own life, community and society, with individuals acting on issues that they define as important.

WISE works from the perspective that domestic and sexual violence is embedded within a social and historical context of oppression, and must be addressed comprehensively through education, advocacy, and empowerment. The services offered by WISE are designed to support empowerment by providing information, tools, resources, and opportunities, based on the goals and objectives defined by each survivor. WISE recognizes that the systems victims are involved in are often confusing and perpetuate social imbalances of power. The organizational mission and services of WISE are rooted in the principles of the empowerment model.

History:

The empowerment model arose from the feminist movement of the 1970s, which understands domestic and sexual violence within a social, cultural and historical framework of inequality between the sexes. Domestic or sexual violence perpetrated by men against women, children or other men is a result of this systemic power imbalance that serves to keep men in power.  Empowerment is based on the belief that everything possible should be done to restore power to victims through validation, community and celebration of their strengths. Other interventions may consider the victim disordered, as if she were maladaptive or contributing to the violence perpetrated on her. The empowerment model instead works to identify and challenge the external conditions of the individual’s life, to promote resilience in the face of adversity, and to make the victim the primary player in discussions and decisions about her future. This is based in a social justice mission to work with an individual around her unique situation, and simultaneously dismantle the circumstances which allow for violence to happen.

Because domestic and sexual violence often remove one’s ability to exercise control over one’s life, the first goals of crisis intervention in the empowerment model is to validate what has happened to the individual and make obvious the innate power, and survival strategies that the individual has developed to stay alive. The empowerment model recognizes that violence is never the fault of the victim, and WISE works with people to exercise the individual’s power by providing a safe, supportive space to brainstorm, experiment, and gather information without judgment. The empowerment model aligns with the desires and expectations from Feder’s meta-analysis . It has also been consistently validated by evaluations conducted with survivors using WISE services.  Because the empowerment model directly responds to the root cause of violence being perpetrated as a social system in addition to the immediate needs and long term goals of survivors, it is the most effective model for our work.

Growing Up With Violence

While it is not uncommon to experience or be exposed to domestic and sexual violence, the violent behaviors you grew up with were not OK. The impacts of domestic and sexual violence are vast and varied. It can be especially challenging for people who grew up with the threat of violence and never felt safe to talk about the abuse. What happened to you when you were young was not your fault. You deserve the space to process your experiences and the opportunity to live a life free from violence.

 

Resources

  • EDUCATION & CAREER

    WISE Advocates are happy to support survivors in their education and career journeys. Call WISE to meet with an advocate and discuss job and school searches, resume writing and interview preparedness.  The following resources may also be helpful;

    Community College of Vermont

    PO Box 489 Montpelier, VT 05601

    800-CCV-6686 (in VT) · 802-828-2800

    River Valley Community College

    1 College Drive Claremont NH 03743

    603-542-7744 · Toll-Free (from NH & VT): 800-837-0658

    Dartmouth College

    Hanover, NH 03755

    603-646-1110

    Dartmouth College Job Openings

    Pathways/UDS

    85 Mechanic St, Lebanon NH

    603-448-2077 Hours: M-F 8:30am - 4:30pm

    Provides residential and vocational support to people in Grafton County with developmental disabilities.

    New Hampshire Employment Security

    404 Washington Street

    Claremont, NH 03743

    603-543-3111 Hours: M-F 8am - 4:30pm

    Full career services. Free to NH and VT residents.

    Division of Vocational Rehabilitation

    220 Holiday Drive Suite A
    White River Junction, VT 05001

    802-295-8850 Hours: M-F 7:45am - 4:30pm

    Provides career direction, training and education for VT residents who are disabled or meet other service criteria.

     

    Dartmouth Hitchcock Medical Center Job Openings

  • TRANSPORTATION

    Big Yellow Taxi
    802-281-8294
    603-643-8294
    Proudly serving the New England, Dartmouth College, and Lake Sunapee area since 1996.

    The Current

    802-460-7433
    admin@crtransit.org

    The Current bus service, formally Connecticut River Transit, runs 15 commuter and local in-town buses and several para-transit and Dial-a-Ride buses in Vermont’s Windham and Windsor counties and into neighboring New Hampshire.

    Advance Transit

    (802) 295-1824
    rideAT@advancetransit.com

    PO Box 1027
    Wilder, VT 05088

    TTY 711

    Stagecoach Transportation Services Inc.

    802 728 3373 or 800 427 3553

    STSI operates two parallel and complementary transportation systems. The Dial-a-Ride System takes elders and persons with disabilities, Medicaid-eligible residents and many other vulnerable populations to medical services, work, grocery stores and meal sites. The STSI Commuter Route System connects passengers to employment centers in White River Junction, Lebanon, Hanover.  The 89er serves towns between Randolph and the Upper Valley and the River Route serves towns between Bradford and the Upper Valley.

  • NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS

    Brown University, Dating Violence in LGBTQ CommunitiesCenter for Disease Control,  National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010, 2014GLADThrough strategic litigation, public policy advocacy, and education, Gay & Lesbian Advocate & Defenders works in New England and nationally to create a just society free of discrimination based on gender identity and expressions, HIV status, and sexual orientation.Love is RespectLoveisrespect is a project of the National Domestic Violence Hotline and Break the Cycle. By combining our resources and capacity, we are reaching more people, building more healthy relationships and saving more lives.National Institute of JusticeThe National Institute of Justice — the research, development and evaluation agency of the U.S. Department of Justice — is dedicated to improving knowledge and understanding of crime and justice issues through science. NIJ provides objective and independent knowledge and tools to reduce crime and promote justice, particularly at the state and local levels.RAINNRape, Abuse & Incest National Network created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline (800.656.HOPE and online.rainn.org) in partnership with more than 1,100 local rape crisis centers across the country and operates the DoD Safe Helpline for the Department of Defense. RAINN also carries out programs to prevent sexual violence, help victims and ensure that rapists are brought to justice.The United States Department of JusticeTo enforce the law and defend the interests of the United States according to the law; to ensure public safety against threats foreign and domestic; to provide federal leadership in preventing and controlling crime; to seek just punishment for those guilty of unlawful behavior; and to ensure fair and impartial administration of justice for all Americans.The White House1is2ManyNot Alone1in6.orgOur mission is to help men who have had unwanted or abusive sexual experiences in childhood live healthier, happier lives.Yes Means YesYes Means Yes is a groundbreaking new look at rape, edited by writer and activist Jaclyn Friedman and Feministing.com founder Jessica Valenti. Through the anthology — and now this blog — we’re trying to move beyond “no means no” to connect the dots between the shaming and co-option of female sexuality in our culture(s) and some of the ways rape is allowed and encouraged to function.Stalking Resource CenterIt is the mission of the Stalking Resource Center to enhance the ability of professionals, organizations, and systems to effectively respond to stalking. The Stalking Resource Center envisions a future in which the criminal justice systems and its many allied community partners will have the best tools to effectively collaborate and respond to stalking, improve victim safety and well-being, and hold offenders accountable.

  • SOCIAL SERVICES

    New Hampshire Social Services

    Dial 211 from a NH phone to speak with someone about social services in New Hampshire.

    Canaan: 603-523-9901

    M-F 9am - 12pm

    Enfield: 603-632-5026

    M-F 1pm - 4pm (appointment only)

    Grafton: 603-523-7700

    M-F 9am - 4pm

    Hanover: 603-643-5317

    M-F 8am - 4pm (appointment only)

    Lebanon: 603-448-2944

    M-F 8am - 12pm (walk ins)

    M-F 2pm - 4pm (appointment only)

    Plainfield: 603-469-3201

    M-Th 8am - 4:30pm

    F 8am - 3:30 (leave a message)

    NH Food Stamps Program

    Claremont office: M-F 603-542-9544 or 800-982-1001

    WIC (Women, Infants, and Children)

    603-225-2050 or 800-578-2050

    New Hampshire Family Assistance publications can be found here.

     

    Vermont Social Services

    Dial 211 from a VT phone to speak with someone about social services in Vermont.

    Economic Services, WRJ

    802-295-8855 (PATH)

    800-775-0507

    Food Stamps, 3 Squares VT

    802-295-8855

    WIC (Women, Infants, and Children)

    802-295-8820

    Public Health Nurse, WRJ

    802-295-8820

    VT Helpline/Homeless Outreach

    802-257-7989

    Deaf Victims' Advocacy Services

    TTY: 802-479-0132

    If you do not have TTY, call VT Relay 711 and give the operator the number

     

  • CLOTHING

    LISTEN Community Services

    60 Hanover St. Lebanon NH 603-448-4553

    M-Sat. 10am - 5pm; Sun. 12pm - 5pm

    River Point Plaza
    Route 4, WRJ next to the NH-VT bridge

    Furniture store
    Route 5, WRJ (802) 280-4133

    Rt. 4 W. Canaan NH 603-632-5331

    M-Sat. 10am - 5pm; Sun. 12pm - 5pm

    Second-Hand Rose Thrift Shop

    Methodist Church 106 Gates Street, WRJ VT 802 295-7091

    W 1pm - 4pm; Sat. 10am - 1pm

    SEVCA Good Buy Store

    2590 N. Hartland Rd, WRJ VT 802-295-6373

    M-Sat. 8am - 4pm

    Our Community Thrift Shop

    20 Union St, Windsor VT 802-674-6210

    M-F 8:30am - 4pm

    The Salvation Army

    7 Martin Drive, West Lebanon NH (behind WalMart) 603-298-8724

    M-W 9am - 5pm; Th-F 9am - 7pm

    Jill's Corner Closet

    1178 Rt 4, Canaan NH 603-523-4373

    M-Tues. 3pm - 8pm; W-F 10am - 8pm; Sat 10am - 5pm

     

  • FOOD

    FREE Community Dinners

    Most function between 5-7pm, however contact location as times and days may change.

    Monday: Canaan Senior Center NH; Methodist Church, WRJ

    Tuesday: Sacred Heart Church, Lebanon NH

    Wednesday: Methodist Church, WRJ; Methodist Church Vestry, Enfield NH

    Thursday: Sacred Heart Church, Lebanon NH

    Friday: Edgerton House, 16 School St Hanover NH

    New Hampshire

    LISTEN 603-448-4553

    60 Hanover St, Lebanon

    Emergency food pantry, Salvation Army food vouchers, gas vouchers.

    Headrest 603-448-4400

    14 Church St, Lebanon

    Emergency food on weekends when LISTEN is closed

    Food Stamps

    Claremont office: M-F 603-542-9544 or 800-982-1001

    Vermont

    The Haven 802-295-6500

    745 Hartford Ave, WRJ VT

    Emergency food pantry.

    SEVCA  802-295-5215

    4 Gilman Office Place, WRJ VT

    Emergency food pantry.

    Congregational Church Hartland, 802-436-2224

    Emergency food pantry open Th. 10am - 2pm; Sat. 9am - 12pm

    Town Office Thetford 802-785-2922

    Emergency food pantry open M 6pm - 8pm, Tu/F 8am - 3pm.

    Thetford Baptist Church 802-785-2050

    St. Francis of Assisi Rectory Windsor, 802-674-2157

    St. James Church Woodstock, 802-457-2145

  • CHILDREN & FAMILIES

    WISE works to support families that have been affected by domestic violence. We recognize that children heal and thrive when they have strong relationships with non-abusive parents. We provide families information and resources about the effects of domestic violence on children and how to rebuild families after abuse.

    WISE has a full time Domestic Violence Specialist co-located at the Department of Children, Youth and Families in New Hampshire to provide training and consultation for child protective service workers, and support families in which there is both domestic and child abuse.

    WISE Advocates are mandated reporters under New Hampshire state law and are obligated to report suspected child abuse or neglect. Advocates can talk with you about what a report may mean, and can provide brainstorming around hypothetical situations if you have questions.

    For more information about reporting child abuse and neglect visit:

    New Hampshire

    Vermont

    NH Office of Child Support Enforcement

    129 Pleasant St, Concord NH

    603-271-4427

     

    VT Child Support Program

    1-800-786-3214

    The Central Administrative OCS Office: Phone: (802) 769-2128. Fax: (802) 769-6429

     

    Read our section on Growing up with Violence

     

Survivors

Connections at WISE

Yoga

Yoga at WISE is open to all women. The gentle classes are meant for relaxation. This is yoga for everyone: new to it, experienced, all bodies…just bring your body in comfy clothes and your breath.  We have mats but feel free to bring one if you have a favorite. Please speak with an advocate if you are interested in doing yoga at WISE.

 

Writing Group

Gather to write as a means of discovering and exploring all the things that matter most to us. WISE Women Writing is a time to deepen our understanding of ourselves and others. This group is facilitated by Joni Cole. No previous writing experience is required. Please speak with an advocate if you are interested in the writing group at WISE.

 

Conversations for Change

Discussion, consciousness raising, planning for how we are going to change the world, and beyond...with tea and snacks. Join with us to end gender-based violence. Please speak with a WISE advocate if you would like to participate in Conversations for Change.

 

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WANN

  • WANN Mission

    Working towards immigrant integration in the Upper Valley through immigration Legal Services and Community Education and Networking.

  • Legal Services

    US immigration law provides protection for undocumented immigrants who have been victims of crimes or who have suffered persecution before fleeing their home country. WANN offers free consultations to assess and individual’s eligibility for these humanitarian immigration statuses or for other benefits under the law. Representation, when appropriate, is low-fee or free, depending on the ability to pay.

     

    WANN’s legal services are primarily in the following areas

    • VAWA petitions for victims of domestic violence
    • Asylum and refugee issues
    • T visas for victims of human trafficking
    • U visas for victims of crimes
    • Family-based immigration
    • Naturalization
    • Humanitarian petitions
  • Community Education and Networking

    Since 2011, WANN has helped organizations and individuals provide culturally relevant services in the Upper Valley, to meet the needs of our increasingly diverse population. WANN provides workshops for entities that have contact with vulnerable immigrants, such as: local medical centers and health clinics, public school English Language Learning educators, law enforcement, and social service providers.

     

    Workshop topics can be designated to meet the needs of your organization.

     

    Past trainings include

    • Cultural effectiveness for local service providers
    • Orientation to public schools for families new to the US
    • Humanitarian immigration options
    • Know-your-rights for immigrants
  • Testimonials

    “I was being abused by my husband, and my work permit expired. I had saved some money to pay the rent, but he took it from me to buy drugs and beer. I could not even call the police when he hit me and stole from me because he said he would call immigration on me. WISE and WANN saved my life. Without them I would be suffering with no way out.”

    - WANN Immigration Legal Services Client

     

    “It has been such a great asset to have WANN in our community. Over the years we have benefited from educational outreach events for parents on immigration, legal rights, financial knowledge, and community-wise topics. We’ve been able to reach out to WANN for support when we know of a family in need of assistance with complicated immigration issues that they would not be able to overcome without WANN. With the growing diversity in the Upper Valley, I predict the value and need of WANN’s services in our community will continue to grow.”

    -Educator of English Language Learners in the Upper Valley

  • How to Support WANN

    WANN is a fiscally sponsored  non-profit program and all contributions are made through WISE. Donations made by check can be made to WISE, with "WANN" in the notation line or online.

  • Contact WANN

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    603-795-2155

     development@uppervalleywann.org

    Mail: PO Box 203 Lyme NH 03768

Program Center: 38 Bank St. Lebanon, NH 03766 • Fax: 603-448-2799 • Tel: 603-448-5922

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